Category: Dating and Relationships
Personally I don't feel it's important for me to moan unless a person is right there next to me or with me but a lot of guys seem to like it on the phone etc.
To girls: How do you feel? Should the guy be right there with you or you don't care you can do the moaning over the phone and just absolutely have no problem with it...
Guys: Does it annoy you? If a girl didn't moan on the phone, is that your biggest turn off? What if you were in bed with her and she didn't do it? What does it mean to you?
I know the answer and read some articles on some of these questions, but I'm curious to get real opinions on this...and please don't go on talking about what you do to her/her I care less, I just want to know what does moaning mean to you...
I think it a lot more comes down to the fact that some people are more vocal than others, no matter whether they're there physically or not. In other words, I think that's much more likely to have a bearing on whether they do or not than anything else.
Sometimes it can be a turn-on for some people to get feedback from the other, to hear a reaction to whatever it is they're doing or saying. Moaning just for its own sake would annoy me. I don't want someone to stage their vocals. But it is nice to know that your partner is sincerely reacting to whatever it is that's going on.
hmm I personally like her feedback if she is enjoihing what I am doing to her. If not then its just away to tell me I need to do something else or attempt to do better. You could I guess throw in this question too.! How many like to hear their parten screem? :) points at me.
I agree with those who say some people are more vocal than others. also, there are other ways to show your partner you're enjoying what they're doing, such as how you move your body.
If a girl moans while I'm with her she has really quick reaction time, normally they can't moan in under 8 seconds.
Hmmmmm. It's good to hear a reaction, especially if you aren't both in the same room to share in the act in that sense. But, when it's put on, that can be annoying and can really detract from the moment in my opinion. I mean it's nice to hear a girl cum, but, screaming is not required, unless that's really how she vocally expresses herself in the throws of orgasm.
I agree with five.
Screaming? Is...interesting...
Screaming may not be a girl's usual way, but sometimes, if what she's experiencing is that intense, it can happen.
Silent sex is bad sex. I know i'm on form when she's screaming about how much of a disappointment I am.
Gotta agree: silent sex would bite, and not in the good way.
well silent sex isnt bad sex it personally moan and scream but i like what my partner does which is my husband
There's nothing worse than fake. If the moaning is real, then it can be a turn on.
hahaha. I want my partner to be natural. if she likes moaning, she can go for it. I want a partner in bed. not an actress.
I'm a silent fucker though.
Raaj.
quiet would really really worry me.
I think faking is one of the deepest insults a person could deliver to their partner.
agreed.
Yeah, as long as you ain't faking it, it's fine. I think some of it has to do with your shyness in general, but also how good it feels. That's the only reason I get a little worried if my man ain't at least grunting a little. It makes me feel like he doesn't like it or something. I don't moan. I scream boy! That's just because it feels good, though, not because I'm trying to boost his self-esteem or anything. If it doesn't feel good, I'll stop him short and tell him what he's doing wrong. Faking is stupid.